EXPERIENCE THE LOVE
Just a thought of mine which came up...
be genuine is very important. The LOVE has to be experienced . If one doesn't experience that selfless love, can never
understand what it is. Those who preach but dont practice may influence people but they themselves remain in deep darkness.
I remember when I had appeared for my Visharad exams, I was sixteen years of age and I was asked to sing ' Babul mora
naihar chhooto hi jaaye'. Technically I had sung it very correct but the examiner told me "Sing it the way you would if you
really have to leave your parents and go far away. Feel it and then sing".
To feel genuinely is very important to do anything
in the right manner. One must have devotion and pure feelings. So,one must love whatever he/she does. To be sincere and devoted
and have faith in OURSELF gives the mental satisfaction which is the real reward.
END WITH A GOOD NOTE:
All the relationships that we share with
other people are valuable for us. Some relationships are very precious to us and some are not so much. But it is a hard moment
for anyone when any relationship ends.The reasons may be many or none but the tension , the pain of breaking of that relationship,
especially if it's precious to us hurts a lot. Some relationships end with bitterness and it's very common. The relationship
that has a bitter end actually never ends. One always has that hatred in him which never lets him live in peace. So always
end a relationship with a good note, whatever be the circumstances. It's very important. Why to have hatred or bitter feelings
. Relationship has come to an end but let one have respect for that beautiful past relationship. The painful memories are
worse than those painful moments which led to the end of the relationship. So one should try to do his/her best to have a
tension-free, nice relationship and if for some reason it has to come to an end , let it end with a good note.
I am writing on a very general topic. I hope I
am able to convey the message.
A feeling which hurts so much is experienced at times by all of us, being humans. It's
natural to feel jealous for a normal human being but is this feeling not the result of the apprehensions about future,
not having confidence in ourselves and the inability to trust others?
The person whom one loves praises someone else.
The terrible feeling that he/she experiences simply is because of the missing trust in the relationship. Not having faith
in a relationship is an insult to it. To develop hatred against a person who doesn't have any fault but is a hurdle on your
way , in your opinion, is the sign of a weak person.
But the question remains...how to get rid of this feeling?
The answer is very simple. "Let's have the courage to accept the fact". What if the person I love , loves someone else?
Let me accept the fact. What if a junior supersedes me at work? Let me accept the fact that he worked better than me.
Let' s remember : Our happiness solely depends
on us. Accepting the facts might be difficult but is the wisest thing to do for anyone.
Human brain is an amazing thing. I guess, 'to forget' is the biggest boon for human beings. I wonder , what
would be the world like if we were not able to forget the painful moments of our life.
Sometimes , some relationships
which one thinks are important at one point of time , don't mean much later.
To lose someone dear is very painful,
but with time man comes out of the pain and forgets and lives normally. Isn't that amazing?
Freud says,' Man wants
to forget the painful moments purposely'
The most desirable thing for anyone to do is remain detached with anything
or anyone, which is hard for a normal person to do, living in this world. But, believe me , however tough time we go through,
however hurt we are and how much pain we are in , with time we will forget. That is a blessing of God to us.